When a couple receives an infertility diagnosis, it can be devastating. There are real psychological issues that can result in response to infertility. Managing stress, having a strong support network and creating an environment for open communication are important for navigating the emotional effects of infertility.
Initial Response
Many people are unprepared for an infertility diagnosis. It is common to believe that once a couple stops using birth control, they will be able to start a family without issue. To learn that there is a medical issue preventing pregnancy can be a devastating surprise. Many individuals experience the grief cycle in response to their diagnosis:
Beyond this, many people feel guilt, as though their infertility diagnosis was somehow their fault. If these feelings are not addressed, they can continue to weigh on an individual and cause additional stress. This stress can further hinder fertility and damage a relationship.
Emotional Stress
Fertility treatment is a comprehensive process. Before treatment can begin, it is important that doctors understand the root cause of the problem. The testing process can be frustrating to some as they feel that getting pregnant shouldn’t be this difficult. This is especially true when others in a person’s social circle are starting a family without issue.
Diagnosis may also cause depression or guilt as one partner feels responsible for the fertility issues. This can manifest itself in communication issues which further hinders the ability to start a family.
Handling Emotions
The first step in handling the emotional toll of fertility treatment is to understand that infertility is not a one sided issue. Regardless of which partner has the issue, it must be faced as a joint circumstance, the same as any other issue in life. Additionally, it is important for both partners to attend appointments and to be involved in the process. Support groups and counseling sessions should be utilized to help couples endure stress and to strengthen their bonds.
For additional information on managing the psychological stress of infertility, contact the experts at New Hope Fertility Center today. The New Hope team understands the importance of managing stress during fertility treatment. This is done through support groups, counseling sessions and one-on-one discussions with the treatment team. Please click the link below to enter your information and New Hope will contact you, or simply call 212-517-7676. Thank You.